Today I am reminded of that joy you feel when you have a child. The first sight of the baby that has been growing in your stomach for nine months. It’s more happiness than a person has ever felt in their life. Overwhelming feelings of love and time seems to almost stop at that moment. I loved being pregnant and kind of miss it but I am happy with the children I have now. Some women take it to the extreme with having way too many children. I think there is a word for it let me see. Oh yes its called “pregnancy addiction psychosis”. According to professional Doctors “psychologists and psychiatrists”, the need to get pregnant is much as addiction as any other addiction out there.Doctors maintain that the immediate need to get pregnant is a mental disorder issue.
I know I’ve always wanted three children anything beyond that would be too much for me to handle. That’s why I have personally chosen to space my pregnancies a part after I have my third I’m done. Then later on I can enjoy grandchildren, and live the rest of my life having raise some pretty good kids. From what I gather women who have this disorder tend to sleep with whomever they need to in order to become pregnant. Which I think is crazy, I loved it when I was pregnant but it does not consume my life. Also It has to be very dangerous sleeping around with a lot of random men, not knowing if they have a disease. I would feel so upset If I had slept with a man not knowing he had a life threaten disease and ended up passing it on to my unborn baby. These mothers who are so in love with being pregnant and having children that they often neglect the children they have already have. Mothers having an obsession with pregnancy do so to fill a void in their lives. These women often do not have a job, friends, hobbies, and/or an outside life. They are often really lonely and believe that being consistently pregnant fills this loneliness and void.
It is just so bizarre to me that there women out there that actually think this way. Normal people wouldn’t have such thoughts as these because they do not suffer from the mental disorder. So it is hard for people like me and you “my fans and friends out there”, to understand why women would go to extreme lengths to become pregnant. When these mother’s continuously get pregnant it is to feel useful and worthwhile. These women believe that they are worth nothing unless they have children. They have a feeling of utter hopelessness and no self-worth. These women further say that they feel more sexy and powerful, when they are pregnant. most of these women are obsessed with being pregnant because they are the center of attention for that particular moment. They feel as if they are the center of the world. Of course every one of us at some point and time love a little attention, but this way too extreme. If you know someone who is acting like this please try to get them some help, because it is very unhealthy.
Also which brings me on to another subject related to the subject I’ve been talking about. Going out of your way to become pregnant to keep a relationship together is also not good. That is simply plain old blackmail, and it is not fair to the person who did not plan on getting “knocked up”. With my first pregnancy it was not a planned pregnancy, but we both knew that there would be a high possibility that I could become pregnant because neither one of us used protection. We both understood the fact and two nights together and nine moths later I had my first-born son. No man should ever be forced or tricked into getting a woman pregnant. Also no man should ever try to trick a woman into getting pregnant as well. ( yes there are both sides to the story when it comes to this). I feel that if a woman Or a man does that to an un-expecting partner should be in turn arrested. Feel free to leave me a comment I would love to hear others opinions on this subject. Should there be a law against this and how harsh of a punishment do you think people like this deserve? I personally think that people who do these types of things need to seek professional help. Just my own opinion about it, thank you for reading.
Until next time friends
Respect, Love, Unselfishness
These are the three words that comes to my mind when thinking about this.
The sleepless Mommie